Community is something that we all need. We were made to live in community. Different life experiences and circumstance sometimes leave us starting from scratch, and/or feeling like we lack genuine friendship and connection. So this week, we thought we'd share 4 tips to help you find your people.

Step Out

If you haven't already, join a church and/or a community or activity with similar interests to your hobbies. Even if you have to go on your own, step out of your comfort zone and commit to regularly showing up. This may feel difficult to begin with, but overtime you will eventually find yourself meeting and connecting with new people.

Be Active Not Passive  

Simply joining and attending is not always enough.  Actively participate, serve at church, join a small group, go to any additional socials linked with your chosen community or activity. Be proactive about reaching out and making an effort with new people that you meet in between your usual times of contact. Check in, invite them for a coffee, or to an event you're going to. Put in the effort, and don't be afraid to make the first move; if it's not reciprocated at least you've eliminated the "what if".

Be A Good Friend

Think about the qualities and characteristics that you look for in a friend and be intentional about being that person to others. The only way to have good friends is to be a good friend.

Vulnerability Is Key

Often what leads to feelings of loneliness is lack of genuine connection. As risky as it may feel, it's the only way to cultivate genuine authentic relationships. Having said that, it's also important to use discernment with who to open up to and when to do so. Many of us have been hurt by friendships in the past, but don't let that be an experience that holds you back from potentially developing beautiful long lasting friendships in the future.

Hope this helps!

Enjoy